Some people say if I do "this..this..this", this will make me feel happy.
Some others will say if I do "that..that..that", that will make me feel better.
Yet some others would say if I get "this..this..this" or "that..that..that", it will make me happy.
This begs a question, Can someone feel happy by doing "this" or "that" or by getting "this" or "that"?
May be. But how long can one remain happy with "this" and "that"? Is eternal happiness really possible?
Time and again, people's experience have shown that nothing can make one eternally happy. This statement has been warranted by scriptures as well which says one gets eternal happiness by serving the Lord.
Though scriptures are very clear with this point, human tendency is to ignore what scriptures say. Our tendency is to think of scriptures rules as ideal which we could never achieve. We accept that we are at lower level of consciousness and we deserve to be happy only by doing/getting this and that.
There is nothing wrong with this kind of thinking. But the issue gets bigger when one strives hard to change temporary happiness to an eternal one. This can never happen!
Let us for the sake of an argument say that if a person do "this/that" or get "this/that", he feels happy eternally. Extending this argument to all the people in this world, then people from this entire world will remain content with their own "this/that". When this happen, the earth will stand still! There will not be any progress, no newer ideas and development.
Assuming that no one is bothered about not getting newer ideas or development, one may still feel jealous of other people's "this/that". I may have what I want, but I still want what the other person has!
Even if one person in this entire world thinks along this line, like butterfly effect, the whole scenario would change in no time. Negative forces such as jealousy, possessiveness, etc are always at work. No matter how hard one strives, eternal happiness with materialistic desires is beyond one's reach.
Wise are those who are in pursuit of eternal happiness. Those who pursue mere happiness are otherwise.